Is Bonang and Euphonic's Love Toxic?

Recently there has been rumouur that Uephonik beat Bonang black and  blue, the whole saga was so bad that Bonang even pressed charges. Uephonik image was tonished, people on social networks bashed him, called him a women beater... blah! blah!

Okay what he did was wrong, I know.. we all know that including Bonang, that's why she pressed charges, but dropping the charges the minute he begs for her forgivess? was that wise? Don't get me wrong I looove Bonang, she is one of the few hard-working role-models that are truly inspirational and I look up to, base on thier work ethics, dress sense and personalities.

Bonang can do whatever she wants, she's a individual but should remember that she is a public figure an whatever she publises she should handle and manage carefully as young boys, girls and gay people love and look up to her, and like it or not her actions influences them... Running back to the man who beat her black and blue is not a good example.

Just like Chris Brown's and Rihnna love story, thier love is toxic and we all know that the toxic type of love is the one we never get over. I'm in no position to judge as I haven't walked a day in her shoes, but as a girl, her fan and follower, I therefore urge her to be careful not to let her love affairs interfere with her work as it will ruin her reputation and walk away with her clients. What she gets up to with her man is rell not our business, it all her time, her heart...

P.S
I Still Love *B faults and all!

Metro Fm All Day, Everyday!

Wow! ever since I was born I've never heard of such an awesome radio station, from the morning til you go to bed... I swear you can take away my T.V as long as I'll be left with Metro. At 06:00am it the rocking Glen, Unathi and Melenie show, OMG it rocks my world, it very fun and controvercial.

Than there's Total bliss, totally awesome... I love azania and Naked, they are just a good team.. I can't mention every show but I generally enjoy Metro, they play good music from Sunday during Thami's sloy, than there's Wilson, Paul and Eddie.. totally romantic.

I love Sbu and Trevor, Lulo, Naives, Thato.. eerbody rocks my WORLD!

Students and Mr price

Mr Price is a very reasonable clothing store that have extremely trendy clothing, it caters for babies, toddlers, teenagers, young adults and full-figuured women. Thanks to Mr Price quite a lot of people can Look very presentable because it sells fashion that is trendy, in demand but in loweer prices than other clothing stores, and it has stores all over the country.

I loooove that store, people can say whatever they like about it but it caters for all. yes the material is not as expensive as those of clothing stores but it delivers, PERIOD!
The colours, the style, shades range from R30.00 to R70.00, show me one clothing store that is a registered brand, has a label, has stores all over the country that has such prices.

I know sometimes as vaarsity students we buys similar clothes because we have similar style , LOL with Mr Price clothes you end up having an identical twin you were not born with, while wearing MrPrice from head to toe.

My Friends

My Friends?  Awesome!
The things we do? totally insane!
Our momnets? Totally Unforgattable!

All in all I'm glad for the kind of friends I have, yes I may have done wrong by yo'll some time but sometimes its all unintentional, I'm human I make mistakes, I just have to learn from them, believe me I have, just as I forgive yours, please try to forget mine.

The crazy things we say to one another, the jokes we laugh at are totally lame, but we get them; them other bitches don't matter... Honestly speaking, if people could overhear us talking they'd think we are totally insane and throw us on a mental institution.


Love yo'll bitches! <3<3<3

ME and LALA

MINE and BFF Lala's love story, we fight, sometimes she irritates the crap out of me, but honestly, that girl has my back... Love you friendooo!

I can't really say we've been friends for a long time, but does time really count? I don't think so, it all about the love, understanding, warmth and trust.

Friends Forever! <3

Me! Me! Me!

Love your family and friends but most of all learn to LOVE YOURSELF as if you haven't made any mistakes, kissed frogs, allowed yourself to be fooled and taken advantage of.

Love is Rare, self-love is vital.

Paris Hilton Against Gay People??

A couple of weeks ago Paris Hilton was quoted during a new smart phone launch called Grindr, which allows gay people to meet online and said, “ew, ew,” Hilton says, when told about Grindr. “Gay guys are the horniest people in the world,” she continues. “They’re disgusting. Dude, most of them probably have AIDS … I would be so scared if I was a gay guy. You’ll like, die of AIDS.”

Seriously? What's wrong with gay men? Are they not human beings and therefore don't deserve a social media to meet? Girl you supposed to glad they aren't chasing after your man. I'm not gay but I love gay people, its totally their choice, they screw who ever they want to screw, you'd never hear them judging you on how many men you've screwed, the sex tapes that you deliberately posted in the Internet. Paris please get off your high house and try to accept people for who they are.

For God's sake you are a public figure, whatever you say little girls and gay boys are listen and take seriously, and start doubting themselves. Gay people are fun, jolly and have colourful personalities, yes there are stereotypes and rumours about them, but they too are human beings and need to be treated with respect, not that I promote promiscuity but not all gay men are promiscuous.

Women are Going Natural... We are Sick and Tired of Weaves!

At first, I grew up thinking that American women had thee most beautiful, long and silky hair, until I grew up only to my suprise, I find out that the kind of hair they had, was the kind that could be bought and they also had to pay a person to sew the hair in, they came in ranges such as Brazillian, 100% human hair or Indian hair.

Than it grew in South Africa some women would get it right some just wouldn't, some weaves would be too heavy, some would tangle, although most got it right, I must admit it though it really made a lot of women feel beautiful, but right now South African women are just tired of these long, tiring and sometimes stinking expensive hair that hides thier natural beauty. Women such a Solange Knowles, Zizo Beda and Unathi Msengana are leading the way in the hair department, they are the true inspiration that one doesn't need a weave to look beautiful, being natural is still beautiful.

weaves have been getting a lot of hate, especially among South African men as well as the media because it was once documented that, houses literally lose tails for the weaves to be made, Indian women are mugged for thier hair in India. Some are drugged or man-handled and they cut off thier hair and sell them to distributors of hair. Don't wanna lie I am a quite a fan of weaves, can't say I'm the most beautiful girl around but weaves really do give me that little confidence but than again I looove my long natural relaxed, brown hair, I'm totally comfortable rolling with it.

I'm not suggesting that women should throw away thier weaves, it if makes you feel sexy, pretty and confident than why throw it away? Its yours you bought it abd throw it when you damn well please, but whatever you do please don't do it for a man, if he wants to leave he'll leave you anyway. I as just outlining a trend that has been growing in South Africa which is braiding hair to cutting it short.

I Love My Hair!

Girls in Mini-Skirts

Despite all the development that South African has been having in the past decade, South Africa is still a very conservative nation, why make that comment? not its not? It has accepted gay and lesbian marriege, passed an abortion Act, what more do you want, you may ask?

Yes all these Acts have been passed, but have people reaally accepted them? Especially men? I don't think so, if they have than why are there so many lesbians being brutally raped and killed in hate crimes? why are women discriminated against for doing abortions when its thier right? than why are girls beaten and humiliated in taxi ranks for wearing mini-skirts? Why are women locked in cells with thier lovers when they report they had beaten them?

I loooove South Africa with all my heart but there are some things I just can't stand about my country, like the humiliation of women who wear mini-skirts, shorts or revealing clothing. I must admit though some women over-do it but it thier body and Freedom means that everyone is free to do, say, dress, live or breathe the hell that the feel is right as long as it doesn't empose or enfridge on another's rights. People need to be less judgemental and get jobs, raise thier kids, study or get in shape instead of being in people's business or faces.

I know you might get the fact that as I'm writing this blog I'm mad as hell, you right I am mad, sick and dead tired of men who thing they have to control women to show thier manhood and make the world a better place. Last Saturday I was dressed down in shorts, my white vest and sneakers, I don't have the world's best body but I qualify to wear shorts and I'm not going to apologise to anyone let alone any man for wearing them, I respect and love my body but I'll wear what pleases me not men. Some dirty illiterate, stinky, Zulu taxi-driver said that i won't get get married because I don't respect my self, I told him to go to hell. I know that sounded rude but what about my feelings? As long as I can I will stand up for women and stand against men who abuse thier strength by physically and verbally abusing women for thier appearences.

God Bless Women!

Noah's Ark

Noah's Ark is an organisation that is very close to my heart, simply because its nurtures and takes care of children from disadvanged backgroungs, in and around Daveyton. It funtions under Oasis of Life Family church, a church that loves and cares for God's children.

Noah's Ark has approximetley 250 children who range from the ages of 2 to 18, for many of these children, Noah's Ark is a place where they could be children again hence they take care of thier siblings or are from totally disfunctional homes where they are too many, to get privacy or even get individual attention.

Noah's Ark is not just a home for these children but it is also a place where they can be encouraged about dreaming as well as helped with schoolwork, assignments and taught sex-eduacation, due to the growing rate of children in all townships starting to engage in sexual activities. They are taught about how good it is to keep thier purity, and taught to understand what sesxual abuse is and how to report it.

Noah's Ark is in desperate need of sponsorships, donations and volunteers. helping this organisation would be creating the brighter tommorrow because these children will be our leaders, so we should do something to invest in South Africa's future. Do something, donating R50 a month would go a long way, old school shoes, a sack of cabbages, mealie meal or even your love and support, organisations such as Noah's Ark don't function with only money but love, support and warmth, that's all these children.

Do Your Part!

Becareful of Who you Send your Pictures to.

Do you know what is the all-time reason for people's downfall? betrayal. A lot of time people are betrayed by the people whom they really trust and would do anything for... ask me why and I wouldn't be able to answer why, I guess its jealous but some people do make mistakes  trying to do right, not all the time, sometimes.

As we fall in love and in lust with different people we young people tend to want to show our love in all sorts of things, be it to differ or stand-out sometimes to fit in. Some people do tattoos, some stay together, some give thier money, some runaway together, some cook, send pictures to remind each other of special moments. Nowadays people date in the internet, social networks, some have long distance relationships, and the one thing that keep thier relationships going besides talking, are pictures, a person's appearence is very important in love, when you fall for someone you want to have an idea of who you love.

As a result, people tend to exchange pictures and videos of themselves to give thier partners an idea of how they look like, the sad part about everything is that, even teenagers do such things without adult supervision and at the same time send disturbing content that contains pornographic pictures, sometimes these boyfriends or girlfriend tend to use these pictures and videos to spite the other person by posting them on the social networks, causing a huge stir about you.

To some people these things are good and doing such things to young girls as a way of "exposing" them very nice, be warned, not everyone who says that they are your friend are actually your friends some just want to use you to get thier shit in order, than drop you like a hot potato.

NB:

Don't send pictures of yourself naked, especially if your face is shown on the pic!

I wrote this in my last blog but I must say, I'm proud to be South African because it is alive with posssibilities. Just the other day I was watching Top Billing and to my suprise I saw my favourite South African designer, David Tlale. Guess what he was doing? he was showing at Mercedez Benz New York fashion week!

Yeah I know it quite a big deal, I can now say that David Tlale has officially made it, the guy was showing in New York Fashion week a couple of weeks ago, I know it wasn't his first time but it was his first official show. I must say, I respect that designer hands down, and all other fashionistas should! he has definetly raised the bar and set South Africa on the another level.

His show had aa very afrocentric stylish theme, all the ladies were head scarfs, wore flawless make-up and bright red lips, oh did I mention that the models were not walking in the run-way? yes! They stood still and only moved for a couple of time... I'm proudly South Africa!

Signed Sealed and Delivered!

Proudly South African

This weekend was a long weekend due to the public holiday yesterday, as most South Africans know, it was Heritage Day, a day to showcase how proud we are of our South African culture and diversity. I must say, people wore thier different but very colourful traditional gowns it made me soo proud to be South African.

South African has come a long way in terms of the struggle, racial segregation and accepting another's differences in terms of skin colour, languages and yes cultural backgrounds, which country doesn't? The truth is, I am proud to be South African, a country that is rich in heritage, with the spirit of ubuntu and a past but most importantly, South Africa has a future a future that is literate free and open-minded.

One may ask what makes me South African? Well.. it is my culture, my languages and linguas. I was bought in the Xhosa culture although I am not 100% Xhosa but I have Xhosa in my blood, I can read, write and speak isiXhosa as my mother strongly wanted me to know my home language and never ever forget so I can teach it to my children in that way my culture will never be forgotten. AmaXhosa are the most out-spoken, funny, clever but very fiesty people, yes we Xhosa women we are known as husband stealers, good liars and cheats, maybe that may be true is for some people but I don't think so, all I know is that amaXhosa know what they want and are not afraid to go get what they want, some people call that being forwad but I call us go-getters.

South African has 11 official languges namely isiXhosa, isiZulu, SeSotho, sePedi, English, thsiVenda, seTswana, seTsonga, Afrikaans, seSwati and Ndebele, I can't speak all the languges but atleast I can undestand half of them. Being South African means you can push boundries, rise above all expectations and never sieze to amaze, first we fought apartheid, won the rugby World cup, won the 2010 bid and made it a success, while everybody was doubting we would, we deliver in soccer, cricket, Olympic and we are totally outstanding in Palympics, yes we have lil as well as major hick-ups here and there but which country doesn't? We are slowly developing and getting in the World stage level. Afterall Johannesburg is South African is Africa's New York, it is a place where many go with the hopes of making it big time or hitting it rock-bottom.

I might not know for sure whether I am Swati or Zulu but I proud to be Zulu, Xhosa and Swati as long as I am South African, a country that is alive with possibiloties.

I am a proud South African... Signed, Sealed and Delieved!!