When The Love is Gone

Most girls would say, "the goodtimes I had with him are worth all the lonely nights I spend alone crying". In my opinion, they aren't worth it, if he really loves you why would he leave you so he could be with another girl? Why would he go for days without calling you? Why? Why?

Were brought up with the belief that men will always be men... but what makes a man? What makes him so special that he thinks he can break your heart as many times as he wants to? What sets him apart from other guys? What has he done to deserve you? Please don't say "he bought me a BlackBerry and regularly buys me airtime" coz that don't count. If he loved you, I mean really loved you, he spend time with you, wanna show you off to his friends, he'd suprise you with little gifts that cost R15.00 but are worth so much for your memories, he'd hol;d your hand in public and let you meet hisfamily, now that's a guy who loves you.

Love shouldn't be one-sided or more for one individual and lesser for the other... MOst sisters out there have loved so hard that theywould give thier hearts to these guys just so they could feel how much it beaats for them even if it meant they die afterwards butwould that love be returned? Hell No! instead the guy would rather love a heartless bimbo, with Brazilian weaves, loo\ng nails and no personality whatsoever. I've learned to let go, let him go, stop calling, stop texting, itmay seem like it'll kill you but itcertianly will make you stronger and make you realise that you can live without him, you can surrvive and that there is a guy who loves you morethan anything in this world.

When the love is gone, he'll realise that he loves you and hopefully you wont love him back, remember when you were younger and yourparents taught you to give your old toys to theunfortunate? Well thatwould be the time to do so in that case. LET HIM GO!!

Beauty isn't everything but being me is

Most people want to look perfect with make-up, lipstick and what ever that there is that is believed to make people look beautiful, afterall society taught us the conventional beauty is a girl with light complexion, big   eyes, small shoe size, short, and a petite body, now that's a beautiful girl.

I'm slightly dark in complexion, as tall as a boy, quite big, and you know what? I like being me, I prefer being than being "beautiful", beauty has it perks but being me is the best, I don't have to impress nor disappoint anyone by what I'm wearing, who I'm dating or with the friends I'm hanging with. Growing I always thought that beautiful girls have it easy, they get all the boys, have everyone sucking up to them but than I grew up and realised that life goes on whether you're pretty, ugly or you're just a plain jane like me, coz you don't have to worry if your looks are fading away or you Sarah the new grl in school looks better than you, you are just there and have nothing to worry about.

Friends Are Forever, Boys Are Whatever!

They say a girl needs three things in life: a man to make her weak, alcohol to make her strong and a best friends to help her when both make hit the floor.... I think that is true, we all need friends, afterall we are not islands, those special people that we laugh with and share valuable information with make life worthwhile, and at times even the reaason to wake up in the morning.

I'm not talking about fake bitches who laugh at your tragedies and make fun of things that break your heart, nor the people who pretend to be your friends so they could get fre rides, get VIP access or tabs in bars or nightclubs. I'm not talking about divas that go on and on about how pretty and fabulous they are and think that they deserve the one guy you truly love and would do anything to get an opportunity to seduce him, shag him, let you know about it and dump him like a hot potato. Frinds like that don't love you, they are with you just so they could have someone to dump thier problems on, so they can hear all your problems, insecurities and misfortunes so they could feel better about themselves.

Focus on friends that have your back at all times, the ones that remind you of your worthiness, that pray for you and love you unconditionally, with faults and all. True friends know when you're truelly smiling and when when you're faking it.

PS

I Love My Friends!

The True Value of Photos

I don't know if I'm wierd or something, but I take pictures of myself whenever I feel like it, and that happens often, especially when I feel good about myself. Three days ago I accidentally dropped my phone in the toilet, that just offically was the worst Monday this year for me!

Yes that phone was broken, went flat everytime I was expecting an important call but damn i loved that phone, took it from my mama, who took it from my uncle who bought it in L.A in 2007... eish! I'll just have to learn to be STRONG and get on with my life... I can get overthe phone dropping into water thang but one thing I can't seem to be dealing with is the fact that, #Deepbreath I lost all my pictures due to the fact that my memorycard deleted every picture in that card :-(! when reality struck I just could'nt help but try to blame my niece, SHIT I loved those pictures more than I probaly loved my first love.

Hopefully I"ll take better ones and create more memories and than capture them!

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#SadForDays!