Monday, 14 May 2012

Mother's Love

Sunday the 13th of May 2012 marks a very important day in the entire year, Mother's Day. Gives such as perfume, cakes, dresses, slippers chocolate and pyjamas were flying off the shelves last week by people preparing for Mother's Day, a day for all the care-givers and lovers for every child.

However to some people Mother's day was just another bitter reminder of the one person they were missing in their lives, be it due to death, distance or being irresponsible, whatever the case is it must hurt. I rally don't think that there is anyone who doe's need mother's love, attention being nurtured knowing that there is someone who loves you unconditionally and her daily job is to worry about your safety and health really does put things at ease and gives one that incredible feeling that's unexplaineable.

A mother, a mother is someone who takes care of her child, who worries, knows about the well-being of her child ans spend time getting to know and understand her child, not some lady who only supports the Lil kid financially, takes her pics and goes and brags to her friends just how much her nanny "ill-treats" her child's despite the salary and all the food you buy in the house. I', not talking about the women who only carried their children for nine months and than gave them up to whoever just as long as they wont be left to take responsibility, or just leave them to their parents to raise and groom them. If you don't want to take care of your children who do expect to take of them? who are you expecting to take your place? Yes that rich thin lady with expensive perfume may take your place but she wont fill your void in his/her heart.

Please don't make poverty your excuse, pap and cabbage has never killed anyone, didn't you grow-up eating that diet? look at you... you are all grown up. You've developed in time, got teeth, went to school and you can think logically, so why rob your child the opportunity of being loved for a man you wanna keep, for beer you'll urinate at the end of the day, for fake friends that don't really like you? Come on, you were old enough to open your legs for a man be old enough to raise a child too, even if he denied fathering him, how many kids grow up without fathers?

Be a mother a source of strength for the gift God gave you, you'll never know if he/she will be troublesome or not but with all the love and care from a mother a child never go astray.

Thursday, 10 May 2012

Who Said Skinny is Pretty?

Lets face it, fat kids always get teased, are not really popular or have really serious self-esteem problems which leads them into eating more and getting even more fatter. Society too doesn't give fat or chubby children a break, they portray them as ugly and unadorable babies that no one should like or associate themselves with. While the skinny children with long hair get all the attention and start teasing the "fat and chubby".



Don't get me wrong, I'm not condoning the fact that most children eat lots of unhealthy and fattining foods that lead them to grow immaturely or way too fast... These kids are going through puberty around the age of 9 or 10, and I thought puberty was for teenagers #RollingEyes#. I'm not saying that it entirely okay for children to indulge in chocolate and sweets all day all but doing that every once a while wont hurt, making children to be aware of healthy and unhealthy foods at a young age is very wrong but feeding them with ideas that their bodies aren't perfect and what's perfect from a tender age in really ruining the childhood of your baby. The world has enough magazines, newspapers and advertisements with lifeless skinny girls with pale skin and blonde hair for heaven's sake.



Who the hell said that skinny is pretty?? These people starve themselves for days and deprive themselves of foods that they enjoy. they are always weighing themselves in weighing scales, buying jeans jeans that don't fit just so they could lose even more weight, now that is not a very fulfilling life! Society portrays peoples bodies as if it whats makes them, maybe in the entertiament industry not in the office. Basically my whole point is that, no matter what size you are be it size 6, 8, 10 or even 16, rock your size with pride, wear clothes that fit, comb your hair, have attitude and move that body as if you were walking in the world's biggest run-way and you were the show-stopper model for Alexander McQueen. Don't let people deprive of your happiness nor having a good time, a chocolate every once in a while wont hurt but staying healthy all the time Will help you live longer.

We all have insecurities but we are part of the society, we should try change what the society portrays as beautiful or ugly, to be honest no one whats to be ugly, but beauty is hard-work so BE YOURSELF! All the time.

P.S
Chubby and Loving It!