Sunday the 13th of May 2012 marks a very important day in the entire year, Mother's Day. Gives such as perfume, cakes, dresses, slippers chocolate and pyjamas were flying off the shelves last week by people preparing for Mother's Day, a day for all the care-givers and lovers for every child.
However to some people Mother's day was just another bitter reminder of the one person they were missing in their lives, be it due to death, distance or being irresponsible, whatever the case is it must hurt. I rally don't think that there is anyone who doe's need mother's love, attention being nurtured knowing that there is someone who loves you unconditionally and her daily job is to worry about your safety and health really does put things at ease and gives one that incredible feeling that's unexplaineable.
A mother, a mother is someone who takes care of her child, who worries, knows about the well-being of her child ans spend time getting to know and understand her child, not some lady who only supports the Lil kid financially, takes her pics and goes and brags to her friends just how much her nanny "ill-treats" her child's despite the salary and all the food you buy in the house. I', not talking about the women who only carried their children for nine months and than gave them up to whoever just as long as they wont be left to take responsibility, or just leave them to their parents to raise and groom them. If you don't want to take care of your children who do expect to take of them? who are you expecting to take your place? Yes that rich thin lady with expensive perfume may take your place but she wont fill your void in his/her heart.
Please don't make poverty your excuse, pap and cabbage has never killed anyone, didn't you grow-up eating that diet? look at you... you are all grown up. You've developed in time, got teeth, went to school and you can think logically, so why rob your child the opportunity of being loved for a man you wanna keep, for beer you'll urinate at the end of the day, for fake friends that don't really like you? Come on, you were old enough to open your legs for a man be old enough to raise a child too, even if he denied fathering him, how many kids grow up without fathers?
Be a mother a source of strength for the gift God gave you, you'll never know if he/she will be troublesome or not but with all the love and care from a mother a child never go astray.
What goes on in my mind, what I see around me and the experiences I go through... I don't guarantee that you'll like my blogs but you'll definently get a piece of my mind.
Monday, 14 May 2012
Thursday, 10 May 2012
Who Said Skinny is Pretty?
Lets face it, fat kids always get teased, are not really popular or have really serious self-esteem problems which leads them into eating more and getting even more fatter. Society too doesn't give fat or chubby children a break, they portray them as ugly and unadorable babies that no one should like or associate themselves with. While the skinny children with long hair get all the attention and start teasing the "fat and chubby".
Who the hell said that skinny is pretty?? These people starve themselves for days and deprive themselves of foods that they enjoy. they are always weighing themselves in weighing scales, buying jeans jeans that don't fit just so they could lose even more weight, now that is not a very fulfilling life! Society portrays peoples bodies as if it whats makes them, maybe in the entertiament industry not in the office. Basically my whole point is that, no matter what size you are be it size 6, 8, 10 or even 16, rock your size with pride, wear clothes that fit, comb your hair, have attitude and move that body as if you were walking in the world's biggest run-way and you were the show-stopper model for Alexander McQueen. Don't let people deprive of your happiness nor having a good time, a chocolate every once in a while wont hurt but staying healthy all the time Will help you live longer.
We all have insecurities but we are part of the society, we should try change what the society portrays as beautiful or ugly, to be honest no one whats to be ugly, but beauty is hard-work so BE YOURSELF! All the time.
P.S
Chubby and Loving It!
Don't get me wrong, I'm not condoning the fact that most children eat lots of unhealthy and fattining foods that lead them to grow immaturely or way too fast... These kids are going through puberty around the age of 9 or 10, and I thought puberty was for teenagers #RollingEyes#. I'm not saying that it entirely okay for children to indulge in chocolate and sweets all day all but doing that every once a while wont hurt, making children to be aware of healthy and unhealthy foods at a young age is very wrong but feeding them with ideas that their bodies aren't perfect and what's perfect from a tender age in really ruining the childhood of your baby. The world has enough magazines, newspapers and advertisements with lifeless skinny girls with pale skin and blonde hair for heaven's sake.
Who the hell said that skinny is pretty?? These people starve themselves for days and deprive themselves of foods that they enjoy. they are always weighing themselves in weighing scales, buying jeans jeans that don't fit just so they could lose even more weight, now that is not a very fulfilling life! Society portrays peoples bodies as if it whats makes them, maybe in the entertiament industry not in the office. Basically my whole point is that, no matter what size you are be it size 6, 8, 10 or even 16, rock your size with pride, wear clothes that fit, comb your hair, have attitude and move that body as if you were walking in the world's biggest run-way and you were the show-stopper model for Alexander McQueen. Don't let people deprive of your happiness nor having a good time, a chocolate every once in a while wont hurt but staying healthy all the time Will help you live longer.
We all have insecurities but we are part of the society, we should try change what the society portrays as beautiful or ugly, to be honest no one whats to be ugly, but beauty is hard-work so BE YOURSELF! All the time.
P.S
Chubby and Loving It!
Thursday, 26 April 2012
When The Love is Gone
Most girls would say, "the goodtimes I had with him are worth all the lonely nights I spend alone crying". In my opinion, they aren't worth it, if he really loves you why would he leave you so he could be with another girl? Why would he go for days without calling you? Why? Why?
Were brought up with the belief that men will always be men... but what makes a man? What makes him so special that he thinks he can break your heart as many times as he wants to? What sets him apart from other guys? What has he done to deserve you? Please don't say "he bought me a BlackBerry and regularly buys me airtime" coz that don't count. If he loved you, I mean really loved you, he spend time with you, wanna show you off to his friends, he'd suprise you with little gifts that cost R15.00 but are worth so much for your memories, he'd hol;d your hand in public and let you meet hisfamily, now that's a guy who loves you.
Love shouldn't be one-sided or more for one individual and lesser for the other... MOst sisters out there have loved so hard that theywould give thier hearts to these guys just so they could feel how much it beaats for them even if it meant they die afterwards butwould that love be returned? Hell No! instead the guy would rather love a heartless bimbo, with Brazilian weaves, loo\ng nails and no personality whatsoever. I've learned to let go, let him go, stop calling, stop texting, itmay seem like it'll kill you but itcertianly will make you stronger and make you realise that you can live without him, you can surrvive and that there is a guy who loves you morethan anything in this world.
When the love is gone, he'll realise that he loves you and hopefully you wont love him back, remember when you were younger and yourparents taught you to give your old toys to theunfortunate? Well thatwould be the time to do so in that case. LET HIM GO!!
Were brought up with the belief that men will always be men... but what makes a man? What makes him so special that he thinks he can break your heart as many times as he wants to? What sets him apart from other guys? What has he done to deserve you? Please don't say "he bought me a BlackBerry and regularly buys me airtime" coz that don't count. If he loved you, I mean really loved you, he spend time with you, wanna show you off to his friends, he'd suprise you with little gifts that cost R15.00 but are worth so much for your memories, he'd hol;d your hand in public and let you meet hisfamily, now that's a guy who loves you.
Love shouldn't be one-sided or more for one individual and lesser for the other... MOst sisters out there have loved so hard that theywould give thier hearts to these guys just so they could feel how much it beaats for them even if it meant they die afterwards butwould that love be returned? Hell No! instead the guy would rather love a heartless bimbo, with Brazilian weaves, loo\ng nails and no personality whatsoever. I've learned to let go, let him go, stop calling, stop texting, itmay seem like it'll kill you but itcertianly will make you stronger and make you realise that you can live without him, you can surrvive and that there is a guy who loves you morethan anything in this world.
When the love is gone, he'll realise that he loves you and hopefully you wont love him back, remember when you were younger and yourparents taught you to give your old toys to theunfortunate? Well thatwould be the time to do so in that case. LET HIM GO!!
Tuesday, 17 April 2012
Beauty isn't everything but being me is
Most people want to look perfect with make-up, lipstick and what ever that there is that is believed to make people look beautiful, afterall society taught us the conventional beauty is a girl with light complexion, big eyes, small shoe size, short, and a petite body, now that's a beautiful girl.
I'm slightly dark in complexion, as tall as a boy, quite big, and you know what? I like being me, I prefer being than being "beautiful", beauty has it perks but being me is the best, I don't have to impress nor disappoint anyone by what I'm wearing, who I'm dating or with the friends I'm hanging with. Growing I always thought that beautiful girls have it easy, they get all the boys, have everyone sucking up to them but than I grew up and realised that life goes on whether you're pretty, ugly or you're just a plain jane like me, coz you don't have to worry if your looks are fading away or you Sarah the new grl in school looks better than you, you are just there and have nothing to worry about.
I'm slightly dark in complexion, as tall as a boy, quite big, and you know what? I like being me, I prefer being than being "beautiful", beauty has it perks but being me is the best, I don't have to impress nor disappoint anyone by what I'm wearing, who I'm dating or with the friends I'm hanging with. Growing I always thought that beautiful girls have it easy, they get all the boys, have everyone sucking up to them but than I grew up and realised that life goes on whether you're pretty, ugly or you're just a plain jane like me, coz you don't have to worry if your looks are fading away or you Sarah the new grl in school looks better than you, you are just there and have nothing to worry about.
Monday, 16 April 2012
Friday, 13 April 2012
Friends Are Forever, Boys Are Whatever!
They say a girl needs three things in life: a man to make her weak, alcohol to make her strong and a best friends to help her when both make hit the floor.... I think that is true, we all need friends, afterall we are not islands, those special people that we laugh with and share valuable information with make life worthwhile, and at times even the reaason to wake up in the morning.
I'm not talking about fake bitches who laugh at your tragedies and make fun of things that break your heart, nor the people who pretend to be your friends so they could get fre rides, get VIP access or tabs in bars or nightclubs. I'm not talking about divas that go on and on about how pretty and fabulous they are and think that they deserve the one guy you truly love and would do anything to get an opportunity to seduce him, shag him, let you know about it and dump him like a hot potato. Frinds like that don't love you, they are with you just so they could have someone to dump thier problems on, so they can hear all your problems, insecurities and misfortunes so they could feel better about themselves.
Focus on friends that have your back at all times, the ones that remind you of your worthiness, that pray for you and love you unconditionally, with faults and all. True friends know when you're truelly smiling and when when you're faking it.
PS
I Love My Friends!
I'm not talking about fake bitches who laugh at your tragedies and make fun of things that break your heart, nor the people who pretend to be your friends so they could get fre rides, get VIP access or tabs in bars or nightclubs. I'm not talking about divas that go on and on about how pretty and fabulous they are and think that they deserve the one guy you truly love and would do anything to get an opportunity to seduce him, shag him, let you know about it and dump him like a hot potato. Frinds like that don't love you, they are with you just so they could have someone to dump thier problems on, so they can hear all your problems, insecurities and misfortunes so they could feel better about themselves.
Focus on friends that have your back at all times, the ones that remind you of your worthiness, that pray for you and love you unconditionally, with faults and all. True friends know when you're truelly smiling and when when you're faking it.
PS
I Love My Friends!
Thursday, 12 April 2012
The True Value of Photos
I don't know if I'm wierd or something, but I take pictures of myself whenever I feel like it, and that happens often, especially when I feel good about myself. Three days ago I accidentally dropped my phone in the toilet, that just offically was the worst Monday this year for me!
Yes that phone was broken, went flat everytime I was expecting an important call but damn i loved that phone, took it from my mama, who took it from my uncle who bought it in L.A in 2007... eish! I'll just have to learn to be STRONG and get on with my life... I can get overthe phone dropping into water thang but one thing I can't seem to be dealing with is the fact that, #Deepbreath I lost all my pictures due to the fact that my memorycard deleted every picture in that card :-(! when reality struck I just could'nt help but try to blame my niece, SHIT I loved those pictures more than I probaly loved my first love.
Hopefully I"ll take better ones and create more memories and than capture them!
P.S
#SadForDays!
Yes that phone was broken, went flat everytime I was expecting an important call but damn i loved that phone, took it from my mama, who took it from my uncle who bought it in L.A in 2007... eish! I'll just have to learn to be STRONG and get on with my life... I can get overthe phone dropping into water thang but one thing I can't seem to be dealing with is the fact that, #Deepbreath I lost all my pictures due to the fact that my memorycard deleted every picture in that card :-(! when reality struck I just could'nt help but try to blame my niece, SHIT I loved those pictures more than I probaly loved my first love.
Hopefully I"ll take better ones and create more memories and than capture them!
P.S
#SadForDays!
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