My Friends

My Friends?  Awesome!
The things we do? totally insane!
Our momnets? Totally Unforgattable!

All in all I'm glad for the kind of friends I have, yes I may have done wrong by yo'll some time but sometimes its all unintentional, I'm human I make mistakes, I just have to learn from them, believe me I have, just as I forgive yours, please try to forget mine.

The crazy things we say to one another, the jokes we laugh at are totally lame, but we get them; them other bitches don't matter... Honestly speaking, if people could overhear us talking they'd think we are totally insane and throw us on a mental institution.


Love yo'll bitches! <3<3<3

ME and LALA

MINE and BFF Lala's love story, we fight, sometimes she irritates the crap out of me, but honestly, that girl has my back... Love you friendooo!

I can't really say we've been friends for a long time, but does time really count? I don't think so, it all about the love, understanding, warmth and trust.

Friends Forever! <3

Me! Me! Me!

Love your family and friends but most of all learn to LOVE YOURSELF as if you haven't made any mistakes, kissed frogs, allowed yourself to be fooled and taken advantage of.

Love is Rare, self-love is vital.

Paris Hilton Against Gay People??

A couple of weeks ago Paris Hilton was quoted during a new smart phone launch called Grindr, which allows gay people to meet online and said, “ew, ew,” Hilton says, when told about Grindr. “Gay guys are the horniest people in the world,” she continues. “They’re disgusting. Dude, most of them probably have AIDS … I would be so scared if I was a gay guy. You’ll like, die of AIDS.”

Seriously? What's wrong with gay men? Are they not human beings and therefore don't deserve a social media to meet? Girl you supposed to glad they aren't chasing after your man. I'm not gay but I love gay people, its totally their choice, they screw who ever they want to screw, you'd never hear them judging you on how many men you've screwed, the sex tapes that you deliberately posted in the Internet. Paris please get off your high house and try to accept people for who they are.

For God's sake you are a public figure, whatever you say little girls and gay boys are listen and take seriously, and start doubting themselves. Gay people are fun, jolly and have colourful personalities, yes there are stereotypes and rumours about them, but they too are human beings and need to be treated with respect, not that I promote promiscuity but not all gay men are promiscuous.

Women are Going Natural... We are Sick and Tired of Weaves!

At first, I grew up thinking that American women had thee most beautiful, long and silky hair, until I grew up only to my suprise, I find out that the kind of hair they had, was the kind that could be bought and they also had to pay a person to sew the hair in, they came in ranges such as Brazillian, 100% human hair or Indian hair.

Than it grew in South Africa some women would get it right some just wouldn't, some weaves would be too heavy, some would tangle, although most got it right, I must admit it though it really made a lot of women feel beautiful, but right now South African women are just tired of these long, tiring and sometimes stinking expensive hair that hides thier natural beauty. Women such a Solange Knowles, Zizo Beda and Unathi Msengana are leading the way in the hair department, they are the true inspiration that one doesn't need a weave to look beautiful, being natural is still beautiful.

weaves have been getting a lot of hate, especially among South African men as well as the media because it was once documented that, houses literally lose tails for the weaves to be made, Indian women are mugged for thier hair in India. Some are drugged or man-handled and they cut off thier hair and sell them to distributors of hair. Don't wanna lie I am a quite a fan of weaves, can't say I'm the most beautiful girl around but weaves really do give me that little confidence but than again I looove my long natural relaxed, brown hair, I'm totally comfortable rolling with it.

I'm not suggesting that women should throw away thier weaves, it if makes you feel sexy, pretty and confident than why throw it away? Its yours you bought it abd throw it when you damn well please, but whatever you do please don't do it for a man, if he wants to leave he'll leave you anyway. I as just outlining a trend that has been growing in South Africa which is braiding hair to cutting it short.

I Love My Hair!

Girls in Mini-Skirts

Despite all the development that South African has been having in the past decade, South Africa is still a very conservative nation, why make that comment? not its not? It has accepted gay and lesbian marriege, passed an abortion Act, what more do you want, you may ask?

Yes all these Acts have been passed, but have people reaally accepted them? Especially men? I don't think so, if they have than why are there so many lesbians being brutally raped and killed in hate crimes? why are women discriminated against for doing abortions when its thier right? than why are girls beaten and humiliated in taxi ranks for wearing mini-skirts? Why are women locked in cells with thier lovers when they report they had beaten them?

I loooove South Africa with all my heart but there are some things I just can't stand about my country, like the humiliation of women who wear mini-skirts, shorts or revealing clothing. I must admit though some women over-do it but it thier body and Freedom means that everyone is free to do, say, dress, live or breathe the hell that the feel is right as long as it doesn't empose or enfridge on another's rights. People need to be less judgemental and get jobs, raise thier kids, study or get in shape instead of being in people's business or faces.

I know you might get the fact that as I'm writing this blog I'm mad as hell, you right I am mad, sick and dead tired of men who thing they have to control women to show thier manhood and make the world a better place. Last Saturday I was dressed down in shorts, my white vest and sneakers, I don't have the world's best body but I qualify to wear shorts and I'm not going to apologise to anyone let alone any man for wearing them, I respect and love my body but I'll wear what pleases me not men. Some dirty illiterate, stinky, Zulu taxi-driver said that i won't get get married because I don't respect my self, I told him to go to hell. I know that sounded rude but what about my feelings? As long as I can I will stand up for women and stand against men who abuse thier strength by physically and verbally abusing women for thier appearences.

God Bless Women!

Noah's Ark

Noah's Ark is an organisation that is very close to my heart, simply because its nurtures and takes care of children from disadvanged backgroungs, in and around Daveyton. It funtions under Oasis of Life Family church, a church that loves and cares for God's children.

Noah's Ark has approximetley 250 children who range from the ages of 2 to 18, for many of these children, Noah's Ark is a place where they could be children again hence they take care of thier siblings or are from totally disfunctional homes where they are too many, to get privacy or even get individual attention.

Noah's Ark is not just a home for these children but it is also a place where they can be encouraged about dreaming as well as helped with schoolwork, assignments and taught sex-eduacation, due to the growing rate of children in all townships starting to engage in sexual activities. They are taught about how good it is to keep thier purity, and taught to understand what sesxual abuse is and how to report it.

Noah's Ark is in desperate need of sponsorships, donations and volunteers. helping this organisation would be creating the brighter tommorrow because these children will be our leaders, so we should do something to invest in South Africa's future. Do something, donating R50 a month would go a long way, old school shoes, a sack of cabbages, mealie meal or even your love and support, organisations such as Noah's Ark don't function with only money but love, support and warmth, that's all these children.

Do Your Part!