Mr Perfect is as real as Batman or the Maskandi Artist who rose from the dead!

Ladies need to realise that there is no such thing as Mr Perfect, your man is a dog as all other men, he makes mistakes, enjoys beer, likes chilling with other men and probably does love you but preferes that you don't call him while his watching sport, especially soccer while his favourite team is playing, ask me how I know all this the question is, I've been around (chuckles).

Men are not all the same some are good but some are just dushbags, while some sure know how to hide their bad side, but eventually after a couple of months into the relationship reveal "that side". Don't get me wrong I'm not hating on men I loooove them, like really like having male figures around, but I've realised that they too in one way or another seek validity from women as much as women try to get as much acceptance from men. women boost male egos by giving compliments and appreciating little efforts they make to make women notice they care, take it from me, they aren't as confident as they pretend to be, they too look in the mirror and see all their imperfections, wish they could be held and make mistakes like every human being does.

Society and in one way or another our sisters, aunts, mothers and cousins haven't really given us young girls good examples when it comes to relationships, most women put with a lot of things that are unacceptable from men like abuse, be cheated on or mistreatment for money and emotional security than go around talking about the men in this as if they are perfect. News-flash we all know they are not, they make promises they can't keep, stand you up when you got ready for 2hours trying to look sexy for them, act like you are asking for too much when all you want is their attention, drink a lot and come home smelling cheap perfume... This things happen, men cheat, say insensitive things that truly hurt feelings, if you live your man, where are you going to find the perfect one?

There's no such thing as a perfect man, you just have to find yourself a man who loves your good side and loves you despite your faults, not all men are bad you just need to stop looking in all the wrong places for relationships, you wont find a husband in a club all you'll get is a one-night-stand that will leave upset and all alone. if he's nice don't assume he likes you, some people date when they are bored.