Make-up Doesn't Cover Everything.

Society taught women that, make-up makes them beautiful, that is why sooo many women jut can not say uncovered with make-up. for that perception I blame the society as a a whole as well as that media \, because they too portray a picture that all the people on television are beautiful because of make-up.

Wanna hear my opinion? Here it goes, be warned, it wont be nice, true beauty comes from within, you are not beautiful from the inside than what the point of having a pretty face? we might as well call you just a no good for nothing elfih bitch. Yes I said it, BITCH. most people define a bitch as someone who sleeps around no that is a slut, a bitch is someone who finds joy in bringing people down, especially pretty people who've always had it easy than take it that they have to bully those who feel less confident about thier looks around as if they are thier slaves.

Ever heard the term "The prettiest people do the ugliest thing?", I don't entyirely agree with it nor disagree, pretty people do use thier good looks as an advantage everywhere and every opportunity they get and doing good to others will not only help you build instead of burning your bridges, you see make-up? make will never hide nor cover your guilty conscience nor hide the scars that gives you countless sleepless nights. Rather try something that wont fade so quickly, and do ber in mind that beauty too fades and while its still there.. hold on to ti because when its gone, people wont just see your ugly wrinkles but will laugh the hell out you since you stupid.

make-up is made to cover the outside not guilty concience you carry with you all day all, unless you'll swallow it of course.

Mr Perfect is as real as Batman or the Maskandi Artist who rose from the dead!

Ladies need to realise that there is no such thing as Mr Perfect, your man is a dog as all other men, he makes mistakes, enjoys beer, likes chilling with other men and probably does love you but preferes that you don't call him while his watching sport, especially soccer while his favourite team is playing, ask me how I know all this the question is, I've been around (chuckles).

Men are not all the same some are good but some are just dushbags, while some sure know how to hide their bad side, but eventually after a couple of months into the relationship reveal "that side". Don't get me wrong I'm not hating on men I loooove them, like really like having male figures around, but I've realised that they too in one way or another seek validity from women as much as women try to get as much acceptance from men. women boost male egos by giving compliments and appreciating little efforts they make to make women notice they care, take it from me, they aren't as confident as they pretend to be, they too look in the mirror and see all their imperfections, wish they could be held and make mistakes like every human being does.

Society and in one way or another our sisters, aunts, mothers and cousins haven't really given us young girls good examples when it comes to relationships, most women put with a lot of things that are unacceptable from men like abuse, be cheated on or mistreatment for money and emotional security than go around talking about the men in this as if they are perfect. News-flash we all know they are not, they make promises they can't keep, stand you up when you got ready for 2hours trying to look sexy for them, act like you are asking for too much when all you want is their attention, drink a lot and come home smelling cheap perfume... This things happen, men cheat, say insensitive things that truly hurt feelings, if you live your man, where are you going to find the perfect one?

There's no such thing as a perfect man, you just have to find yourself a man who loves your good side and loves you despite your faults, not all men are bad you just need to stop looking in all the wrong places for relationships, you wont find a husband in a club all you'll get is a one-night-stand that will leave upset and all alone. if he's nice don't assume he likes you, some people date when they are bored.

Lies! Lies! Lies!

A lie is a deliberately false statement, or a statement intended to deceive- whether or not it is literally true. once you start lying you have to lie over and over again to cover up the previous lie, some say they lie to protect the ones they love honestly speaking a lie is nothing but deciet and it sets people aback.
People lie about thier ages, where-abouts, thoughts, true feelings and thier past, to me keeping quiet about a matter you knew very well that concerns me is as good as lying because it means you intentionally with-held the truth from me.

White lies are minor lies which could be considered to be harmless, or even beneficial, in the long term. White lies are also considered to be used for greater good. A common version of a white lie is to tell only part of the truth, therefore not be suspected of lying, yet also conceal something else, in order to avoid awkward questions.An exaggeration (or hyperbole) occurs when the most fundamental aspects of a statement are true, but only to a certain degree. It is also seen as "stretching the truth" or making something appear more powerful, meaningful, or real than it actually is.

To bluff is to pretend to have a capability or intention one does not actually possess. Bluffing is an act of deception that is rarely seen as immoral when it takes place in the context of a game, such as poker, where this kind of deception is consented to in advance by the players. For instance, a gambler who deceives other players into thinking he has different cards to those he really holds, or an athlete who hints he will move left and then dodges right is not considered to be lying (also known as a fient or juke). In these situations, deception is acceptable and is commonly expected as a tactic.

One thing is for sure we all lie, we different reasons for doing so but lie and lie and lie! lol

Mother's Love

Sunday the 13th of May 2012 marks a very important day in the entire year, Mother's Day. Gives such as perfume, cakes, dresses, slippers chocolate and pyjamas were flying off the shelves last week by people preparing for Mother's Day, a day for all the care-givers and lovers for every child.

However to some people Mother's day was just another bitter reminder of the one person they were missing in their lives, be it due to death, distance or being irresponsible, whatever the case is it must hurt. I rally don't think that there is anyone who doe's need mother's love, attention being nurtured knowing that there is someone who loves you unconditionally and her daily job is to worry about your safety and health really does put things at ease and gives one that incredible feeling that's unexplaineable.

A mother, a mother is someone who takes care of her child, who worries, knows about the well-being of her child ans spend time getting to know and understand her child, not some lady who only supports the Lil kid financially, takes her pics and goes and brags to her friends just how much her nanny "ill-treats" her child's despite the salary and all the food you buy in the house. I', not talking about the women who only carried their children for nine months and than gave them up to whoever just as long as they wont be left to take responsibility, or just leave them to their parents to raise and groom them. If you don't want to take care of your children who do expect to take of them? who are you expecting to take your place? Yes that rich thin lady with expensive perfume may take your place but she wont fill your void in his/her heart.

Please don't make poverty your excuse, pap and cabbage has never killed anyone, didn't you grow-up eating that diet? look at you... you are all grown up. You've developed in time, got teeth, went to school and you can think logically, so why rob your child the opportunity of being loved for a man you wanna keep, for beer you'll urinate at the end of the day, for fake friends that don't really like you? Come on, you were old enough to open your legs for a man be old enough to raise a child too, even if he denied fathering him, how many kids grow up without fathers?

Be a mother a source of strength for the gift God gave you, you'll never know if he/she will be troublesome or not but with all the love and care from a mother a child never go astray.

Who Said Skinny is Pretty?

Lets face it, fat kids always get teased, are not really popular or have really serious self-esteem problems which leads them into eating more and getting even more fatter. Society too doesn't give fat or chubby children a break, they portray them as ugly and unadorable babies that no one should like or associate themselves with. While the skinny children with long hair get all the attention and start teasing the "fat and chubby".

Don't get me wrong, I'm not condoning the fact that most children eat lots of unhealthy and fattining foods that lead them to grow immaturely or way too fast... These kids are going through puberty around the age of 9 or 10, and I thought puberty was for teenagers #RollingEyes#. I'm not saying that it entirely okay for children to indulge in chocolate and sweets all day all but doing that every once a while wont hurt, making children to be aware of healthy and unhealthy foods at a young age is very wrong but feeding them with ideas that their bodies aren't perfect and what's perfect from a tender age in really ruining the childhood of your baby. The world has enough magazines, newspapers and advertisements with lifeless skinny girls with pale skin and blonde hair for heaven's sake.

Who the hell said that skinny is pretty?? These people starve themselves for days and deprive themselves of foods that they enjoy. they are always weighing themselves in weighing scales, buying jeans jeans that don't fit just so they could lose even more weight, now that is not a very fulfilling life! Society portrays peoples bodies as if it whats makes them, maybe in the entertiament industry not in the office. Basically my whole point is that, no matter what size you are be it size 6, 8, 10 or even 16, rock your size with pride, wear clothes that fit, comb your hair, have attitude and move that body as if you were walking in the world's biggest run-way and you were the show-stopper model for Alexander McQueen. Don't let people deprive of your happiness nor having a good time, a chocolate every once in a while wont hurt but staying healthy all the time Will help you live longer.

We all have insecurities but we are part of the society, we should try change what the society portrays as beautiful or ugly, to be honest no one whats to be ugly, but beauty is hard-work so BE YOURSELF! All the time.

P.S
Chubby and Loving It!

When The Love is Gone

Most girls would say, "the goodtimes I had with him are worth all the lonely nights I spend alone crying". In my opinion, they aren't worth it, if he really loves you why would he leave you so he could be with another girl? Why would he go for days without calling you? Why? Why?

Were brought up with the belief that men will always be men... but what makes a man? What makes him so special that he thinks he can break your heart as many times as he wants to? What sets him apart from other guys? What has he done to deserve you? Please don't say "he bought me a BlackBerry and regularly buys me airtime" coz that don't count. If he loved you, I mean really loved you, he spend time with you, wanna show you off to his friends, he'd suprise you with little gifts that cost R15.00 but are worth so much for your memories, he'd hol;d your hand in public and let you meet hisfamily, now that's a guy who loves you.

Love shouldn't be one-sided or more for one individual and lesser for the other... MOst sisters out there have loved so hard that theywould give thier hearts to these guys just so they could feel how much it beaats for them even if it meant they die afterwards butwould that love be returned? Hell No! instead the guy would rather love a heartless bimbo, with Brazilian weaves, loo\ng nails and no personality whatsoever. I've learned to let go, let him go, stop calling, stop texting, itmay seem like it'll kill you but itcertianly will make you stronger and make you realise that you can live without him, you can surrvive and that there is a guy who loves you morethan anything in this world.

When the love is gone, he'll realise that he loves you and hopefully you wont love him back, remember when you were younger and yourparents taught you to give your old toys to theunfortunate? Well thatwould be the time to do so in that case. LET HIM GO!!

Beauty isn't everything but being me is

Most people want to look perfect with make-up, lipstick and what ever that there is that is believed to make people look beautiful, afterall society taught us the conventional beauty is a girl with light complexion, big   eyes, small shoe size, short, and a petite body, now that's a beautiful girl.

I'm slightly dark in complexion, as tall as a boy, quite big, and you know what? I like being me, I prefer being than being "beautiful", beauty has it perks but being me is the best, I don't have to impress nor disappoint anyone by what I'm wearing, who I'm dating or with the friends I'm hanging with. Growing I always thought that beautiful girls have it easy, they get all the boys, have everyone sucking up to them but than I grew up and realised that life goes on whether you're pretty, ugly or you're just a plain jane like me, coz you don't have to worry if your looks are fading away or you Sarah the new grl in school looks better than you, you are just there and have nothing to worry about.